Konfessions: The Road To Self Forgiveness

By: Konfashionable Mind January 17, 2019January 17, 2019 Konfessionsfeatured, Forgive, Mirror, Self Discovery, Self Forgiveness2 Comments

2018 was a year of self discovery. My therapist led me on a long journey of navigating who I was and where I came from. I couldn’t believe it took thirty something years to actually sit down and really think about these things. That journey opened up my heart and my mind. I began the process of reconciling with family members and…

How To: Thrifting 101

By: Konfashionable Mind January 10, 2019January 10, 2019 FashionBargains, featured, Shopping, Thrift Store, Thrifting2 Comments

Thrifting When one visits several different thrift shops, second-hand shops, and vintage clothing stores in the hopes of buying several items of cheap and unusual clothing … Weekends spent with my Grandma Bea meant waking up super early to head to flea markets, consignment shops and thrift stores. Grandma Bea was methodical when it came…

Konfessions: What Am I Going To Do Next?

By: Konfashionable Mind January 4, 2019January 4, 2019 Konfessionsfeatured, mindfulness, reflection, thoughts4 Comments

My supervisor and I are great friends. She’s been my friend/supervisor for 5-6 years and has been nothing short of amazing. Today, she retired. Today was her last day of work. I assisted her with loading her car up with all of her belongings and I sadly said my goodbyes to her. The one thought…

My 2018 Year In Review

By: Konfashionable Mind December 31, 2018December 31, 2018 MotivationBlog, Blogger, featured, Growth, Monday, Motivation, New Post, Year In Review2 Comments

As the year comes to a close, I’m sharing with you my most memorable moments of 2018. It’s definitely been an eye opening year for me. January Chopped off all of my hair, marched into the hair salon and demanded a relaxer. I was so tired of my hair and its looking like there will be a…

All I Want For Christmas Is….

By: Konfashionable Mind December 18, 2018December 18, 2018 FamilyChristmas, featured, Gifts, Holidays, WantsLeave a Comment

Youuuuuuuuuuu…. Yeah right!! All I Want For Christmas Is The Following: Brahmin Bag Facial and Massage Lush Bath Products Fendi Hosiery Oval Makeup Brush Set Roses (luxury roses in particular) Freres Branchiaux Candles Bond No. 9 Perfume Nixon Watch 360 Lace Frontal Unit M.A.C. C-Thru Lip Glass WINE Bloomingdales “Little Brown Bag” Umbrella Money, Money, Money,…

Sparkling Dresses For Your Sparkling Holiday Parties (and beyond…)

By: Konfashionable Mind December 6, 2018 FashionDress, Fashion, fashionista, featured, Gowns, Holiday Party, Party, Sequins, Stand Out, Style2 Comments

Sequins Either you love them or you hate them. The perfect way to stand out in a crowd or if layered correctly, blend into daytime everyday wear. I LOVE THEM! Because lets be honest, sequins are always appropriate. You don’t have to look like a disco ball to successfully pull off these sequined looks. These…

My Trip To Munich, Germany

By: Konfashionable Mind November 19, 2018November 21, 2018 Travelfeatured, Germany, Munich, New Post, Oktoberfest, Travel, Vacation1 Comment

Our recent family vacation to Munich, Germany. Two words. ABSOLUTELY INCREDIBLE. I recently posted about how I was born in Germany and that my family and I would be taking the trip of a lifetime to visit ( It’s Official, I’m Visiting Germany). I was not prepared for the breathtaking scenery, the noteworthy beer and the…

Fall/ Winter 2018-2019 Nail Trends

By: Konfashionable Mind September 20, 2018September 20, 2018 Nail FilesBlog, featured, nail trends, Nails, New Post1 Comment

Guess what Guys!! My nails are finally healthy and back in order. It only took all of 3 months! My nail bed ridges are gone and I can finally scratch my head without my nails bending and breaking off. I allowed my nails to be free of all chemicals majority of the summer and I…

I Have A Dream…

“My vision is to share what I love and inspire all curious and adventurous souls”

Lifestyle

The habits, attitudes, tastes, moral standards, economic level, etc., that together constitute the mode of living of an individual or group.

Fashion

“I always feel that if you’re gonna be uncomfortable and unhappy in something, just because you think it’s in or it’s chic, I would advise you to be happy rather than well-dressed. It’s better to be happy.” — Iris Apfel

Tuesday’s Motivation

By: Konfashionable Mind December 18, 2018December 19, 2018

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“Never give up on something that you can’t go a day without thinking about.”

―Winston Churchill

In my head, I quit on my blog at least once a month. I discourage myself. I complain. I get frustrated. I lack creativity. Then out of nowhere, someone will pop up and comment on my blog or someone will inquire about my blog and I feel that pang of excitement all over again. I think about my blog daily. I think about what to write next, I think about how to modify my blog, I love researching new words and phrases and I genuinely love formulating my thoughts for display. In the back of my mind, I do know that the magic is to continue to strive towards my passion because I’m bound to succeed in one way or another. Time to crank up this Black Girl Magic!

Never give up on your passion!!!

Sometimes we all just need a little motivation…

Favorite Holiday Memories

By: Konfashionable Mind December 4, 2018December 31, 2018

WellnessCheer, Christmas, Family, Favorites, Friends, Holiday Blues, Holidays, Memories, TraditionsLeave a Comment

I’ve noticed that I’ve become a Scrooge when it comes to Christmas and holiday cheer. All of a sudden Christmas music is annoying, office Christmas parties are a drag and if you offer me a glass of Egg Nog, I’m going to throw up. When I think of the holidays, I immediately begin to feel…

I Am Grateful For…

By: Konfashionable Mind November 21, 2018December 31, 2018

Wellnessgive thanks, gratitiude, love, New Post, ThanksgivingLeave a Comment

Good Health. Good health and good sense are two of life’s greatest blessings. My Children. Watching them laugh, grow, and dream keeps things in perspective. Family. We have our ups and downs, but they really are my foundation. Friends. There is no way I could survive without them. Love you guys! The Ability To Travel. “Traveling…

Konfessions: Loner

By: Konfashionable Mind November 18, 2018January 4, 2019

KonfessionsBlog Life, Blogger, Growth, Healing, Major Key, Meditation, New PostLeave a Comment

Have I been a loner all along?

Why does being a loner feel so good? Am I going through a phase in life? Dining alone and watching people soothes me. Am I the only one who enjoys dining alone? Is this depressive? I’m not sad. Maybe I’m just tired of wearing a mask around people 24/7. Is this truly introversion or is the devil trying to isolate me? Enjoying a quiet evening alone with my thoughts in a bathtub full of bubbles with wine in hand is goals, right? Having circles of friends and loved ones that I adore, but not wanting to be bothered. Is that healthy? In a world where everything is so loud, peace and quiet is welcomed. My son is a lot like me. Am I affecting him negatively? I was sheltered as a kid. Would I have been this way if I wasn’t sheltered? Are you born a loner? Should I work on being a better person? Am I now embracing a part of me that I thought was weird?

Who knows…

What I do know is (as I sit smiling alone at a table in Panera Bread)…

I’m happy at this moment in time.

I feel good…

Relationships: What About Your Friends?

By: Konfashionable Mind November 7, 2018December 6, 2018

Wellnessbest friends, Family, friendship, no new friends, RelationshipsLeave a Comment

I was raised in a home where the motto was “Do not allow females in your home, because you can not trust them.” My mother had long time girlfriends that she grew up with, but there was never a time where her good gal pals came over to the house when they needed to talk or vent…

Hair Chronicles: Blonde Coiled Bombshell

By: Konfashionable Mind November 5, 2018December 6, 2018

HairBeauty, Blonde, Bombshell, Cut, Hair, Hair Cuts, Hair Styles1 Comment

Have you ever been so happy with your hair that you wanted it to stay the same forever? I’ve been on many hair adventures and have experienced the highs and the lows. I’ve been weaved, wigged, pressed, relaxed, braided, updo’d, colored, bobbed, etc. You name it, I’ve done it, however, my most recent experience with chopping it…

Relationships: Ladies, Are We Paying for Dates Now?

By: Konfashionable Mind October 30, 2018December 18, 2018

WellnessDating 101, Men, Money, Relationships, WomenLeave a Comment

Recently, my coworker sparked a major debate in my office. He asked the ladies, what our thoughts were regarding women offering to pay on dates. He felt that if the guy is dating a woman for a certain period of time, that she, at some point, should offer to pay for dinner or offer to…

Product Review: Magnetic Lashes

By: Konfashionable Mind October 24, 2018December 28, 2018

ReviewsBeauty, Lashes, Magnetic Lashes, Style1 Comment

Who doesn’t appreciate full, luscious lashes. I know I do. My experience with applying false lashes have been horrific, but Ive never given up. Ive spent hundreds of dollars on lash technicians and had individual lashes applied professionally. While the individual lashes are beautiful, I’m unable to wash my face in its entirety, feeling like…

Trending: Are Chunky Sneakers Here To Stay?

By: Konfashionable Mind September 26, 2018January 2, 2019

FashionBlog, Chunky Sneakers, Fashion, fashionista, Sneakers, Trendy2 Comments

They are in all the magazines. They are adorning the feet of all the celebrities and models. They are street styling on all the popular Instagram posts. They are taking over my life. I cant seem to figure out this trend. The Chunky Sneaker Trend (I call it the Ugly Grandpa Shoe Trend). How does one…